I worry it will only be worse when the kids grow older. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. But I am very lonely indeed, I have married to a doctor for 5 years, he has been struggling with his career change for years with achieving different fellowships and residency in different countries. I am thinking about him pretty much all the time. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. We strive to improve each other.

So do you just never give anything back to SOs in terms of time or small gestures. If we do, I will be back to share my experiences. When I acquired a personal testimony of the gospel as a teen, and made my own decisions regarding my faith, I felt very alone. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing.
The dots are extremely close for every LDS person, its just extremely hard to connect them. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. It is so hard, so sad and so lonely. It CAN work, to be frank. Takes some getting use to. A lot of people are religious. Do not make anything risque public. If you have children how will they be raised. I don't think I'm eligible to advice, but I would say be prepared to be independent and make lots of friends. I got married to for love and companionship, not to essentially be lonely with a lot of nice things and raise my children "as if" I were a single parent.
I'm dating a 2nd year surgical resident, he has three kids from a previous marriage and I have one. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution. I must admit that this life comes with a lot of surprises. Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. We have 3 children and have now been married 17 years I have been a single mother for yearsthere life is the hospital.